Wilbur,
You have no need to apologize. One of the individuals believes he is a larger than life character, certainly larger than the game we play. He was and is a typical internet bully, who when challenged resorts to arrogant, argumentative behavior and if that doesn't work, he plays the sympathy card accusing everyone else of picking on him and tries to become the victim. You had to ban a rimfire gunsmith for very similar actions. Sooner or later, you would have had to ban this one, too.
I bear responsibility in the original thread that you were compelled to delete. The tread linked above was this individual's attempt to give his side of the story. The woman and others, who knew what really happened chose not to share their opinions, at least not on a public forum. Maybe the truth was somewhere in between, only because none of us really can tell what is in the heart of others.
As for your latest post, start by deleting my account. It is only a matter of time before some other halfwit takes a shot at me and you already know how I will react.