IIRC, .040 to .055 is the range of bullet driving band engraving I’ve heard mentioned the most in old posts. Into or touching the second driving band normally. But the throat angle and land height play a role in the actual depth, probably because of the effort required to close the bolt with a steep throat angle reamer.
My drop-in tight bore lilja (eley #5 reamer?) engraves a wolf-mt a full tenth of an inch, and a GM barrel on my 10/22 doesn’t engrave at all but just touches the driving band on wolf mt, so there are some exceptions. The GM shots far better than it has a right to, so just touching must not be an outright group killer.
IIRC again, B.C. said in an old post he sometimes pulls the barrel several times while building a rifle, altering the amount of engraving until the chamber works best with the ammo he intends to use. He manually extracts the rounds while testing and cuts the extractor slots after the chamber is working.
Hope this gives you a place to start while searching, but its best to not trust my memory as the final word!
Jim