What the H happened here?
My wife and I don't discuss much anymore...... we'll drive down the road contentedly listening to an audio file or a podcast.
Because we're adults.
And we've been together longer than most folks have been alive.
And we've already discussed anything and everything we've ever had questions about.
And when we have a NEW question or subject, or are "surprised" by events, we'll turn of the rad and discuss it.
Most folks prattle endlessly about the weather, and how good each other looks, and how big so-and-so's (insert subject here) is..... and whether or not this person or that will get voted off the island, or "I nearly shat me'self when George R R Martin killed off XXX" etc etc..... In the same way many shooters just want to get through another day "sharing stuff" like "I just bought this reall cool XXX" or "my RemChester just put three shots into a half-inch" or "who makes the best barrel?"..... Or they opine about stuff they've never experienced, arguing endlessly instead of actually going out and TESTING and BUILDING stuff. Most "forums" in today's world in fact run on visiting and "sharing" not on actual (Lord FORFEND!!) discussion.
THIS forum is and has always been an information forum.
I've been on this forum for well over 20yrs and some things have happened;
#1, the rules have evolved which has precluded some discussions.
#2, many interesting things have already been discussed. This forum has changed the shooting world hugely.
#3, our world has evolved around us such that societally our "feelings" have been allowed to become important. I useta' LOVE arguing with honest folks who'd get up on their hindfeet and TELL IT! Some of these folks have passed (Skipper, Dan Hackett, Dick Wright, Frank L Murphy to name a few) but now lots folks's get all butthurt and flounce instead of supporting their argument with reasoning (ie 'Forum').
#4 some folks have moved on because they came for sharing ideas and discussion and found instead a social media site.... I'll not name anyone here but I still correspond personally with over a dozen of these.
That said Jim...... you throw a subject out there and there are still some of us who'd love to mull it and maul it