Here are some vague generalities. They may help with the three shot groups a lot of us use to rule things out -- that is, if the target looks bad & the generality fits, that target is probably right & its time to move on.
Powders
If you're using a Dasher, you might be using Rel 15. I've never found any of the Reloader series to be fussy about neck tension. The odd one out here is Rel-17, which is made by a Swiss company rather than Bofors. But that's not a Dasher powder...
You might be using VarGet. I found (not a Dasher), & others say the same, that VarGet likes pressure. Any thing less than full power loads are apt not to please. I've no real thoughts about neck tensions with this powder, but in my older .30x44, which likes it, I don't use high neck tension.
There are other powders used with Dashers, the new IMR 8208XBR, and the old H-4895, with which a number of Montana guys seem to have found Dasher joy. Never found 4895 to be fussy...
long-range Bullets (in the 95-108 grain region)
Berger (Walt) did a flip-flop twice on the VLDs. First recommendation was to jump them. Next recommendation was to not jump, either just touch, or jam. Then -- the company, anyway -- went back to suggesting trying a jump, .040 or even more.
I'd say that history is about right -- in other words, try them all. In the small sample size I have, a .020 jump seems to work better more often that not. But you'd best try them all.
With a high-number tangent ogive like the BIBs & maybe the newer Berger Hybrids, I've never heard of a jump over .020 helping any. Most find better luck with .005 off "just touching" (small jump), to a hard jam. Somewhere in there.
There are other good 6mm long-range bullets out there, but I've no information on them.
Primers -- People I trust seem to have best luck with the CCI 450s in the Dasher.
I suspect success lies somewhere in the powder/bullet/seating depth choices, rather than neck tension. But if I'm wrong, it wouldn't be the first time today