Skeet, the truth is, a .262 is really no more "fragile" than a .269. I have used both, and as far as I am concerned, the only difference is in the ease in turning of the .269. In fact, that is the one reason I went with the .269, (I like to believe I sort of "pioneered" it).
The .262 has it's roots in the "old days" when the predominant brass was the old Sako. To clean it up, you had to go to .262. Since there were literally multitudes of reamers ground for this, it hung around for a long time, even though it was obvious that the 220 Russian required removing quite a bit of metal in order to get it to .262.
About five years ago, I was ready to order a reamer, and Dave Kiff asked me, "why do you guys turn so much off the 220 Russian". I told him the usual story. I then told him to give me about 30 minutes. I took a 220 Russian, necked it to 6mm, then seated a typical 68 grn Benchrest Bullet. The thing measured darned near .271, so I figured a .269 neck would be perfect. I called him back, and that is how it happenned.
From the beginning, I said that the only reason I did this was because it made turning necks a breeze. Judging from the number of shooters who have switched over to the thicker necks, many agree. I have always adivised shooters who are just starting out, and are not heavilly invested in the .262, to go on ahaead and use the .269.,,,,,,,,,jackie